at elsewhen, we're not shy about telling you what to do with your life. and why not? we both know that, if left to your own devices, you'd only waste it. whom to vote for, which books & movies you should like, what you should think, even your amused disdain for religion: we've got you covered from cradle to grave. and it's in that spirit that we present our latest guide: how to know when to have sex.enjoy (but not too much).